Continuing a Conversation tips for men

A lot of guys sometimes have problems coming up with ways to continue and prolong their conversations. They can approach women just fine, but find themselves at a loss for words halfway through a conversation. If this includes you, then listen up!
So the first tip is that you need to give the girl a reason as to why you stopped her. You don’t want to make her feel like you’re taking a survey because this won’t build attraction. What a lot of guys like to do is to say that you just noticed them and that they looked interesting, and that you had to come over and say hi. That’s one way. Another way is to say that you saw them from across the street, and that they had an interesting aura about them. You could even say, “I was reading this article today and I thought it was pretty strange, so I had to ask you.”
The whole idea of you explaining why you’re asking her specifically, is to make her feel more comfortable about some stranger coming up to them. Basically to make it look as though its not completely random for you to walk up to her and start a conversation; to make it look more natural - to make it seem as though this question was on your mind and you absolutely had to stop her because she was the closest person to you when you felt the need to ask this question.
The second tip is that you should always have a story in your mind ready to tell because the worst thing is to run out of things to say. If you have a couple of quick, to the point stories that are funny or show something about you, then that’ll help the communication flow more. True stories work best; especially if you have some to tell that are interesting and intriguing.
So, the third tip is to ask leading questions. Don’t ask yes or no questions, because these usually lead to a halt in the conversation, and you won’t get a whole lot of flowing conversation from the girl with these. Leading questions will help to get more interaction from the girl. So for example you could ask, “How do you keep yourself busy, and I don’t want to hear it if its dirty.” Be sure and say that sort of thing with a smile, obviously, so that they know you’re joking. The point is to just get them talking more, and also to get them thinking more.
Now the first 3 minutes you’ll have with a girl you shouldn’t expect an equal interaction from the woman. Expect to be doing 90 percent of the talking and interacting in those first 3 minutes, but after those first few minutes you should expect more from them.
So if you’ve held the first 3 minutes of conversation and the girl starts bringing up random topics or directions of conversation that do you no good, then you’ll want to cut them off and change the topic as quickly as possible. After those first 3 minutes they should be interacting more, and asking you more and more questions instead of the other way around. They’ll also be more likely to lean in and start playing with their hair; indicating their interest in you.