Blind Dating

Dating experts also suggest that women should not dress too provocatively for a blind date. Avoid hemlines that are too high, plunging necklines or fishnet stockings unless you are sure you want to have sex on the first date. Teasing a blind date with your charms is not a good idea.

Men should try to avoid looking too casual in that "I am looking for someone to do my laundry" way. Wearing sports wear, such as sweatshirts advertising your favorite team is also not advised. Dress casually but also be you.

Dressing for the blind date is all about making a strong personal statement about who you are without overwhelming your partner. For instance, you don't need to wear your roller-skates to the date, you can just talk about your love for roller-skating instead. Of course there are exceptions to this rule. If you are a Wiccan witch covered with tattoos and piercings, it may not be a good idea to try and conceal that fact from your date.

Most people know within the first five minutes of meeting someone whether or not there is a romantic spark. It is important to patient, as sometimes the other person is as nervous as you are and doesn't necessarily express anything but awkwardness or anxiety for the first few minutes. Sometimes it takes a few moments for both of you to relax and for the personal chemistry between you to kick in.

While on the date try and keep the conversation going as best as you can. The best way to do this is ask your blind date polite questions such as "So how was your day?" and "Did you read that item in the newspaper about ...?" Although you are very curious about your date, it is best to save the heavy interrogation, such as "Why are you still living with your mother at age 43?" for later.

Keep an open mind, keep your sense of humor and keep your wits about you. Give the individual time to settle down, look you in the eye and talk about him or her. If something seems awkward or goes awry during the date (such as atrocious service at a restaurant), then encourage your date to laugh at life's little foibles.

Although it is polite to stick through a blind date to the very end, make sure to make a quick exit if your date displays any disturbing, addictive or mentally ill behavior. One way to determine this is to assess whether or not, after a remark has been made, you feel ashamed or humiliated in any way. Feeling shamed or humiliated by the comments or behavior of a date is a sure sign that you should abort the mission promptly.

To keep your confidence up before and during a blind date, keep telling yourself that most human beings are basically the same. The person you are with has agreed to this arrangement for the same reasons you have and probably feels just as awkward or confused. If it doesn't work out, comfort yourself by acknowledging that blind dates don't always evolve into a second date or full-blown relationships. The bottom line is that when you go on a blind date you take your chances and must be capable of handling whatever results from the meeting.

Wildest Sexual Fantasies

Having sex in the trial room
This one figures high on the wish list of couples. "Me and my girlfriend once went clothes' shopping at a unisex store and while trying out the clothes we started to kiss each other passionately. Soon, we had ripped each others' clothes off and were wild. It was hard to keep our moaning down," admits Deepak Jha, a student. Watching their performance in the trial room mirror or keeping a check of who's standing outside keeps them aroused for a gratifying act!
Make out in a hot air balloon
Nothing can be as adventurous as sex combined with an adventure sport. But flying in a hot air balloon - there can be no better chance to get intimate with your partner. Such a fantasy might make you dish out the mullah, but the pleasure is surely worthwhile. "I once had sex with my fiance on a boat when we were out rafting. The cool winds, the open sky and the rocking of the boat made the sex unbelievable. Being naked amidst nature is a great thrill," says Madhavi Malani, a teacher.

Passion heat in a mud pond
As couples get all messy and dirty, they take extra pleasure in wiping the mud off from their partner’s body through their tender touches. These little gestures are a perfect way to stimulate their moan zones for a better performance. "Once we just got wild rolling in the mud and ripping off each others' clothes. So much better than a predictable sex on the bed with clean sheets. After the romp, we had a bath together and that got us lustful for more hot sex," says Ram Chandra, a lawyer

How to Keep Romance Alive in Your Marriage

Set Romantic Dates with Your Spouse

Busy schedules, taking care of kids, and falling into routines can be the death of your romantic life with your partner, if you're not careful. While things like children and work are undoubtedly important, it's essential to make time for your relationship, too. Setting date nights for just the two of you, giving yourselves a weekend to get away by yourselves, and even just taking the time to enjoy sit-down meals together at home can provide the quality time necessary to maintain a close bond.

Hugs and kisses and little affectionate touches go a long way in this department, too. Think about all the things that you loved to do during those early days, and set aside a little time for those, too. Pinochle, square dancing, skinny skiing, whatever you're into.
Surprise Your Spouse With Romantic Gestures

Too often it's easy to let time go by without giving your relationship its due. Taking just a few minutes each day to let your partner know how much you care can make all the difference. Leaving sweet nothings on post-its can be a great way to bring a smile to your partner's face, and little things like doing the dishes, taking out the garbage, and making the bed -- especially when it's not your responsibility to do so anyway -- are actions that can speak louder than words. Of course, those three little magic words are something you should never forego, either. I love you.
Care for Yourself and Your Marriage

Keeping your body in shape and not letting your wardrobe consist solely of old college t-shirts and sweaters from the '80s are great ways to remind your partner that you're still into your relationship. It not only shows your partner that you're still interested in attracting them, it shows that you care about yourself and that you want them to take notice of you, too.
Communicate for a Healthy Marriage

But far and away the number one thing to remember in your relationship is to communicate. If you feel like you're being neglected in favor of work, or kids, or anything else, speak up. Likewise, if you feel like your once-fiery love life has somehow fizzled out, let your partner know how you feel. Avoid being accusatory or assigning blame, and instead focus on making things the way you want them. If you approach it right, you'll pretty likely to find you're not alone.